I really must be a vain person because the idea of intimate acts thin is the only think that really turned me on. I don't want to look ugly to myself or a man I love to have it with. Jas-pitdog never understood that those were my value systems and I stand by them strongly as I also do about not wanting old men cuz of all the dirty ugly old p e dos of 100 around me drunk all the time. went past a brothel and thought. NAH, i think I will prefer the luxury and comfort of my own misery at home then have to do whore slag stuff. I want a nice young man to treat me like a lady that I am and take me out the right way or no way. Its not that I won't give sex. I will if I feel right but I like most things my way. I don't like compromising with what is most important to me.